
The argument of 9mm vs. it isn’t that the 9mm is inferior to the .45 ACP, but it continues to hit the reality limits: magazine geometry, recoil control, suppression physics, and when the bullets actually strike intermediate materials rather than clean gel.
Terminal-performance gap was reduced by modern loads. The separation appears in other places, particularly when shooters begin to time things, quality of hits and what their pistol of choice can do at long strings.

1. Gel penetration usually lands in the same “good enough” window
Modern defensive JHPs in both calibers regularly hit the 12-18 inches target zone which is used by many trainers as a baseline in calibrated gelatin. That renders caliber a defective short cut in the question of will it reach something important. The practical distinguishing factor is how reliably a particular load functions with a particular barrel length, and how it functions in the event that the shot is not a clean square strike on bare gel.

2. Expanded diameter favors .45 ACP, but only when expansion is reliable
45 ACP begins broader thus successful growth usually concludes broader. The fact that geometry can expand the permanent crush trail when the bullet opens as it was intended to open. The trick here is that expansion is contingent: the effects of different velocities of impact, the design of the bullets, and the clogging by clothes or some other material can alter the results quickly. In actual selection, the performance of the selected load is proven and thus, caliber identity is not important.

3. Recoil isn’t “feel” it’s a time-and-hits tax
Reduced recoil usually has the effect of increasing follow-up shots and reducing the amount of accuracy lost with cadence. That benefit builds up on multiple-hit, transition, and partials drills. It also seems to be in most shooters that 9mm is easier to control when the timer is discharged and that .45 ACP may need more conscious grip and re-sight application to maintain the same speed and accuracy. It is not comfort talk but performance that can be measured.

4. The gun matters as much as the cartridge
Same caliber but platform weight, slide mass, grip geometry and spring rates can make it feel like a totally different gun. A heavier pistol will be able to spread the recoil impulse across more mass and along with that less abrupt, whereas lightweight carry guns sharpen it all and penalize inconsistency with longer strings. And here is where come the arguments of my .45 being the softer than your 9 that they are used to argument with; people are often comparing guns of different calibers, bore heights and recoil systems not merely different cartridges.

5. Capacity is a mechanical advantage, not a preference
Smaller stacks of 9mm, thus similar pistols tend to be loaded with more. The most obvious example remains elementary: a Glock 17 magazine can accommodate 17 rounds, whereas a Glock 21 magazine can accommodate 13 rounds. Although compact models in some areas are pushed to the brink of the window, the final fact remains that bigger cartridges consume internal capacity and magazines foot the bill. Increasing the amount of onboard ammunition also alters the rate of slide-lock being reached during training and the frequency with which reload mechanisms are required to be performed under stress.

6. Drywall doesn’t “solve itself” with caliber choice
The interior wall walls can hardly act as a handgun round safety net. When using organized wall tests, typical handgun ammunition with 9mm and 45 ACP penetrated several walls of sheetrock with little deformation of the bullet that had broken through building materials. Ammunition choice, angles, backstop awareness and stressful solid hits are the risk-management levers. Any of those are not substituted by a caliber label.

7. Intermediate barriers can flip expectations
Service caliber sameness begins to tear at barrier interaction. In a single informal aluminum-plate test, 9mm loads had gone into a plate of 3/8-inch of aluminum at a range of 5 to 25 yards and a.45 ACP 230-grain FMJ had not. That does not make a universal winner, since the construction of the bullet and the type of the barrier are the real leaders in the results, but it does represent a real fact, which is that bigger is not necessarily better with stuff, and the exact load is sometimes more important than the myth of caliber is.

8. Suppression and training volume pull in opposite directions
Subsonic is typical when using 45 ACP, and this makes it simple to build suppressed systems by keeping the velocity below the sonic range without special selection. 9mm also can do this, but it is typically necessary to select loads to maintain that velocity at or below the sonic range. There is also a trend that favors training volume where the 9mm is favored due to the fact that it is easier to run fast and hit on target during long sessions especially in smaller guns. As one of its more knowledgeable posterers put it, there is really no difference between good jhp among the service calibers. That fact makes the repetitions, or hits, rather than noise, one of the few assets that continue to be paid off.

In both calibers, the modern ammunition has reduced the distance where individuals raise the greatest level of noise. The variations that continue to appear are mechanical: capacity, controllability, platform behavior and the performance of the selected load when the conditions cease to be ideal. Ultimately, results are driven by dependability of the particular pistol and the capability of the shooter to deliver an accurate round as fast as possible than the identity of the caliber.

